DEATH BY ABLEISM

CU faculty calls for better care for people with disabilities

By David Kelly

April 2023

Patients with disabilities often encounter medical providers who make inaccurate assumptions about their quality of life that can lead to paternalism and substandard care, according to an essay published in January in the New England Journal of Medicine. 

“The term ‘ableism’ is not as well-known as the term ‘racism,’ but it is a concept that is under-recognized in medicine,” says essay author Megan Morris, PhD, MPH, an associate professor of medicine who focuses on health disparities among those with disabilities. “The health care system is not set up to deal with this population who is at serious risk for experiencing disparities.” 

“Ableism” is a wide-ranging term that includes discrimination against those with physical, mental, and intellectual disabilities.

Morris's essay, “Death by Ableism,” chronicles the last days of her Uncle David, who had developmental disabilities and who routinely endured seizures. 

“It took me two years to finally write about what happened,” she says.

‘LOVE, UNCLE DAVID’

David lived with his aging parents. He was outgoing and friendly, often walking the neighborhood, chatting up friends, and telling jokes. He loved gin rummy, television sitcoms, and especially his niece. 

“For my birthday each year he would give me a card signed in his shaky cursive, `Love, Uncle David.’ 

In her essay, Morris details the events of Dec. 23, 2016, when she and her parents rushed her uncle, then 54, to the emergency room. He had aspiration pneumonia and problems swallowing. His pneumonia improved, but swallowing remained difficult. 

With his regular care team gone for the holidays, Morris proposed giving her uncle a temporary nasogastric (NG) tube until they returned. It would deliver nutrition while decreasing the risk of getting pneumonia due to inhaling food while eating. 

The medical team resisted, saying It would be uncomfortable for him. Instead, they suggested he be admitted to hospice with no nutritional support. The family argued against it and left the hospital thinking they had reached an agreement with the doctors.
But the care team talked to David’s parents, who consented to his discharge without an NG tube and on a full oral diet. 

“To this day we remain uncertain if my grandparents knew what they were consenting to,” Morris writes. 

STRUGGLING WITH GUILT

Within a day, David developed pneumonia. This time Morris and her family reluctantly consented to hospice care. Morris used suction and a sponge to clear the endless drainage and saliva that “poured from his mouth like quickly moving lava.”

David died on New Year’s Eve. 

Morris struggled with guilt, feelings that she didn’t advocate strongly enough for her uncle. She also thought about ‘ableist’ slights David endured. 

Medical professionals often assumed his disability meant he was incontinent, couldn’t speak well, or walk independently. Morris once posted signs in his room listing his favorite discussion topics – country music and comedies – to get him better care. 

“I have sat and listened to people’s stories for the past decade plus. People with disabilities will go to the doctor, and the health team won’t look them in the eye,” she says. “They make assumptions about their conditions without discussing it with them.” 

Morris cites a study in which some doctors admitted to trying to rid their caseloads of people with disabilities. 

“Some assume a life with a disability is not a life worth living,” she says. “But studies show the exact opposite. People with disabilities report a similar quality of life as those without disabilities.”

Morris hopes her essay will spur medical teams to rethink their views. 

“I hope clinicians will read it and maybe think twice about the assumptions they make when providing care to patients,” she says. 
Morris is still working through her uncle’s death.

While boxing up his things, she found a pack of pastel index cards. Each card had an affirmation he had written about his importance to his family and community. Each card, an attempt to beat back feelings of worthlessness. 

“As I read the words on the cards,” she wrote, “I prayed that at the end David knew he was valued.”